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Your Oklahoma Custody Attorney

Trusted advocates to support your family’s evolving needs. 

Strong When You Need It Most

Hear what our clients say about working with our family law team. 

Lindsay C.Google Verified Review
“Their expertise in family law and ability to explain complex legal terms in a simple manner were impressive. [They were] able to guide me through a difficult divorce, ensuring my interests were always protected. I highly recommend anyone in need of a skilled and compassionate family law attorney.” 
Kara W.Google Verified Review
“They were extremely professional and helpful. They were not overly expensive and always went the extra mile to answer any questions I had. Absolutely recommend. Would give more than five stars if I could.” 
Jason J.Google Verified Review
"Their professionalism, courtesy, and compassion set the bar very high. As their client I have always felt heard, respected, and treated with empathy while going through difficult times. They allow you to still keep things in perspective and advocate with your best interests in mind."

Types of Custody Cases We Handle

When you’re talking about a change to custody, in the legal world, this is referred to as a post-decree modification.   

No matter how contentious or amicable, custody can bring up old wounds or be a reminder of a painful situation. The right attorney will help you navigate complex dynamics and keep your child’s—and your— best interests at the forefront.  

What Happens After You Call Ball Morse Lowe

Connect 

Connect with one of our Client Advocates by calling our office or submitting a form. Our team is responsive, knowledgeable, and will work diligently to connect you with the best custody attorney for your case.  

Consult

Your Client Advocate will schedule a free consultation with an attorney to get a more detailed picture of your situation, and how we can help. There is no obligation, but this is the step before retaining to ensure that we’re a fit.

Retain

After you’ve met with our team, you’ll be able to determine if we’re a good fit for your situation and budget. Our team will prepare a retainer agreement, and once that and your retainer are submitted, you’ll be introduced to your new legal team, which will include two attorneys, a legal assistant, and a partner.  

Where We Work in Oklahoma

Our offices are located in Oklahoma City, Edmond, Norman, and Stillwater, but our service area extends far beyond that. The family law attorneys at Ball Morse Lowe work across most of central Oklahoma. 

Because family cases often require frequent court appearances and strong relationships with local courts, our Family Law practice is focused on select counties, shown in green on the map. 

You can find a full, detailed list of counties where we work here

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Need to Modify Your Custody or Child Support Arrangements?

Whether you’re facing a tough custody battle or simply need to make some changes to your current set up, you need an advocate that can help you navigate the minefields of family law. Call today for a free consultation – let's see how we can help you fight for your family.  

Your Custody Questions Answered

Where do you work in Oklahoma?

We currently work with custody cases and other family law matters in the following Oklahoma counties:

  • Beckham County
  • Blaine County
  • Bryan County
  • Caddo County
  • Canadian County
  • Carter County
  • Cleveland County
  • Comanche County
  • Custer County
  • Garfield County
  • Garvin County
  • Grady County
  • Kay County
  • Kingfisher County
  • Jackson County
  • Lincoln County
  • Logan County
  • Love County
  • Marshall County
  • McClain County
  • Murray County
  • Noble County
  • Okfuskee County
  • Oklahoma County
  • Pawnee County
  • Payne County
  • Pontotoc County
  • Pottawatomie County
  • Roger Mills County
  • Seminole County
  • Stephens County
  • Washita County
What types of child custody are recognized in Oklahoma? In Oklahoma, the primary types of child custody are legal and physical. Legal custody relates to decision-making authority regarding the child's upbringing, including education and healthcare. Physical custody refers to where the child resides. 
How is child custody determined in Oklahoma?

The court considers the child's best interests when determining custody arrangements. Factors such as each parent's ability to provide a stable environment, their willingness to support the child's relationship with the other parent, and their own preferences (if they are of sufficient age and maturity) may be considered. 

How do sole and joint custody differ? Sole custody and joint custody differ mainly in how parental decision-making is shared. Sole custody gives one parent the primary authority to make major decisions about the child’s upbringing, including education, healthcare, and general welfare—though the other parent still has the right to stay informed and involved. Joint custody, by contrast, allows both parents to share in those key decisions and maintain active roles in the child’s life, requiring cooperation and communication to serve the child’s best interests. 
Can joint custody be granted in Oklahoma? Oklahoma recognizes joint custody arrangements where both parents share legal and/or physical custody. Joint custody can be legal, physical, or both, depending on the circumstances. 
Can child custody orders be modified in Oklahoma? Child custody orders can be modified in Oklahoma, but there must be a substantial change in circumstances to warrant a modification. This change could relate to a parent's relocation, a change in the child's needs, or other relevant factors. 
What is the role of a mediator in child custody cases? A mediator helps parents agree on custody and visitation issues outside of court. Mediation can be a helpful alternative to litigation, allowing parents to work together to find solutions in the child's best interests. 
When can a child choose who they live with in Oklahoma? In Oklahoma, a child doesn’t have the legal right to choose which parent to live with, but once they reach about 12 years old, the court may consider their preference as part of the custody decision. The judge will weigh the child’s wishes alongside their maturity and understanding of the situation, always focusing on what best supports the child’s overall well-being. 
What’s the difference between legal and physical custody? In Oklahoma, legal custody refers to a parent’s right to make important decisions about a child’s education, healthcare, and overall upbringing, while physical custody determines where the child lives and who provides daily care. Legal custody can be shared by both parents or granted to one, and physical custody may be arranged, so the child primarily resides with one parent or divides time between both homes. 
Where does Ball Morse Lowe provide Child Custody services? Our Family Law team serves 32 of Oklahoma’s 77 counties. Although our office locations are primarily in central Oklahoma – Oklahoma City, Norman, Edmond, and Stillwater.  
  
We can accept Child Custody cases filed in the following counties:  Beckham County, Blaine County, Bryan County, Caddo County, Canadian County, Carter County, Cleveland County, Comanche County, Custer County, Garfield County, Garvin County, Grady County, Kay County, Kingfisher County, Jackson County, Lincoln County, Logan County, Love County, Marshall County, McClain County, Murray County, Noble County, Okfuskee County, Oklahoma County, Pawnee County, Payne County, Pontotoc County, Pottawatomie County, Roger Mills County, Seminole County, Stephens County, Washita County 

Understanding Child Custody Modifications in Oklahoma

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