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Thoughtful Family Law Legal Counsel in Oklahoma

Strong when it matters, compassionate when it counts — Oklahoma family law attorneys you can trust

Oklahoma Family Law Attorneys

Family law deals with deeply personal and often emotionally complex circumstances – from divorce, to adoption, to custody issues, and more. These are decisions that impact lives, and they require decisive advocacy, skilled counsel, and genuine understanding. 

The Family Law team at Ball Morse Lowe is one of the largest in Oklahoma, combining extensive experience, proven results, and a deep bench of legal knowledge. When you work with us, you’ll have a dedicated attorney who keeps you informed and supported at every step, and will be proactive in advocating for your best interests.  

We know how much is at stake in family law, and that it’s a serious investment where the stakes are high. With four office locations and a presence across central Oklahoma, we’re accessible, connected, and ready to help your family face your most complex legal challenges. 

Helping Oklahoma Families Like Yours

 

Stevie W.
“From the very beginning, they took the time to truly listen and understand the full picture of my divorce situation. They helped create a thoughtful, long-term plan and remained committed to seeing it through. Throughout the process, they were consistently communicative, making sure I always felt informed and supported. Most importantly, they not only achieved the goals we set for the case—they did so with kindness, integrity, and compassion. They are not only outstanding attorneys, but genuinely good people. HIGHLY RECOMMEND!” 
Shannon H.
I’ve had a rough case and they worked really hard for every win that we got through the process. There’s not a THANK YOU big enough I could give to them. I owe my daughters’ safety to them and will definitely work with BML in the future.” 
Lindsay C.
“Their expertise in family law and ability to explain complex legal terms in a simple manner were impressive. [They were] able to guide me through a difficult divorce, ensuring my interests were always protected. I highly recommend anyone in need of a skilled and compassionate family law attorney.” 
Kara W.
“They were extremely professional and helpful. They were not overly expensive and always went the extra mile to answer any questions I had. Absolutely recommend. Would give more than five stars if I could.” 
Jason J.
"Their professionalism, courtesy, and compassion set the bar very high. As their client I have always felt heard, respected, and treated with empathy while going through difficult times."

Family Law Support Across Oklahoma

Our Family Law team works throughout central Oklahoma, with four office locations in the Oklahoma City metro. 

Because family cases often require frequent court appearances and strong relationships with local courts, our Family Law practice is focused on select counties, shown in green on the map. Limiting the region for family matters allows our attorneys to provide more personal, responsive, and effective representation.

No matter your location or legal need, Ball Morse Lowe delivers the trusted advocacy and practical solutions Oklahomans rely on.

 

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Your Family Law Questions Answered

What is family law?

Family law is the area of Oklahoma law that guides how families navigate major life changes—like divorce, custody, adoption, and protection from abuse. It covers the rights and responsibilities of people connected by marriage, parenthood, or even shared living situations.

At its core, family law provides structure during moments that can feel overwhelming. It outlines how property is divided when a marriage ends, how parenting time and child support are determined, and how courts can step in to protect someone experiencing physical or emotional harm. Some couples may pursue annulment, others divorce, and many rely on prenuptial agreements to define how assets are handled if a relationship ends.

Because these issues involve both legal details and personal stakes, many people choose to work with a family law attorney who can help them understand their options, safeguard their rights, and advocate for the outcome that best supports their family.

If you’re facing a family transition or a situation that requires legal protection, our team is here to offer clarity, compassion, and steady guidance. 

What counties do you offer family law services in?

Ball Morse Lowe currently services the following counties:

  • Beckham County
  • Blaine County
  • Bryan County
  • Caddo County
  • Canadian County
  • Carter County
  • Cleveland County
  • Comanche County
  • Custer County
  • Garfield County
  • Garvin County
  • Grady County
  • Kay County
  • Kingfisher County
  • Jackson County
  • Lincoln County
  • Logan County
  • Love County
  • Marshall County
  • McClain County
  • Murray County
  • Noble County
  • Okfuskee County
  • Oklahoma County
  • Pawnee County
  • Payne County
  • Pontotoc County
  • Pottawatomie County
  • Roger Mills County
  • Seminole County
  • Stephens County
  • Washita County
How do I file for divorce in Oklahoma?

Filing for divorce in Oklahoma requires that at least one spouse has been a resident of the state for a minimum of six months. The divorce petition should be filed in the county where the petitioner resides.

Is Oklahoma a community property state?

No, Oklahoma is not a community property state; it follows the principles of "equitable distribution" when dividing marital assets and debts during a divorce. 

What’s the difference between contested and uncontested divorce?

In an uncontested divorce, both parties agree on all major terms — including property division, custody, and support — allowing the process to move forward more smoothly and cost-effectively. A contested divorce occurs when there’s disagreement on one or more issues, requiring court intervention. Contested divorces can take longer and be more complex, and even more costly.

What happens after I contact Ball Morse Lowe?

When you call our office or submit a form, our team of Client Advocates will speak with you about your matter, our availability, and pricing; this team will need to ask you a few questions and get your contact information. From there, if you think we are a good fit for your needs and budget, you will be scheduled with an attorney for a free consultation to discuss the details and decide if you want to retain our team.  

Our process is designed to be flexible for you and transparent from start to finish.

Consultations and calls with our team are no obligation, and we’ll work with you throughout to make sure hiring us is the right decision for you.

How is child custody determined?

In Oklahoma, child custody decisions are based on what is in the "best interests of the child." Courts consider multiple factors, including the emotional and physical well-being of the parents, the stability of the home, and the child's wishes, depending on their age and maturity.

How is child support calculated?

Child support in Oklahoma is calculated using the state's child support guidelines, which take into account both parents' income, the number of children involved, and other relevant expenses.

Can I get alimony?

Alimony, also known as spousal support, is not automatically granted in Oklahoma. It is generally based on factors like the recipient’s need, the payer's ability to pay, length of the marriage, and the standard of living during the marriage.

What is a prenuptial agreement, and is it enforceable in Oklahoma?

A prenuptial agreement is a contract entered into before marriage, outlining the division of assets in the event of divorce. As long as the agreement was made voluntarily and is free from fraud or duress, it is generally enforceable in Oklahoma.

What is legal separation?

Legal separation allows a couple to live apart and divide their assets and debts without formally ending the marriage. It can be a step before divorce or an alternative for those who do not wish to divorce due to religious or other reasons.

How can I get a protective order?

In cases of domestic abuse or violence, a protective order can be sought to ensure the safety of the abused party. You must file a petition with the court, and if immediate danger is present, a temporary protective order can be issued.

Do grandparents have visitation rights?

In Oklahoma, grandparents can petition for visitation rights, especially if the parents are divorced or one parent is deceased. However, granting such rights is at the court’s discretion and based on what is in the best interests of the child. 

Visit Our Library to Explore Legal Resources

Our team has curated a collection of hundreds of articles, blogs, and videos to help you understand Oklahoma family law, and prepare for your next steps. If you're still weighing your options, it's a great place to start. 

 

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